the Conscious Couple
Transform unconscious patterns to deepen pleasure and stability in your relationship
4 months: August 10th - November 16th, 2025
What if your sacred partnership could be a source of pleasure and stability amidst the chaos of these times?
The last thing you want is for unconscious patterns to wreak havoc on your love life.
These patterns aren’t your truth after all.
They’re the remnants of ancestral trauma from surviving a war-hungry world.
As the world transitions away from domination and toward heart-centered relating, are you ready to address the deeper blocks that get in the way of surrendering fully into love?
The Conscious Couple is a compassionate container that helps you develop skills to take the stress out of dating so you can enjoy the pleasure of relating while advancing your spiritual growth journey.
This program is for couples who want to:
Cultivate habits that deepen trust & longevity
Move through conflict more quickly and gracefully
Heal codependent patterns
Relate to boundaries as bridges, not barriers
Do some witchy healing using the 3rd eye
What’s Included
Live Zoom Calls
12 calls over 4 months
Week 1: Lecture + Q&A
Week 2: Psychic/Somatic Exercise + Q&A
Week 3: Group Coaching
Week 4: Break
Transformation
Structure to cultivate new habits
Reflection Questions
Exercises
Practices
Community Portal
Community
Private online community
Connect with other conscious couples across the globe
Ask questions
Receive 1:1 support between calls from both facilitators (including psychic reads from Fēnix!)
What You’ll Learn
Month 1
Conscious Agreements
build a steady foundation for your relationship
bring unconscious assumptions & expectations to the surface
create an intentional couple culture
Month 2
Conscious Conflict
learn how to move through conflict more quickly and easefully
sharpen your communication skills
unmatch from the collective vibration of war so you can stay on the same team
Month 3
Sovereignty & Acceptance
relinquish control & deepen trust
master the art of spacious consent
love your partner as they are (not who you want them to be)
relate as one whole person to another whole person (not your other half)
Month 4
Boundaries as Bridges
what if boundaries could be invitations for connection?
give a skillful “no”
reduce the charge of giving and receiving a “no”
Each lesson helps you deepen trust in your partnership.
How You’ll Learn
This isn’t some class that you’ll take once and forget about later…
You will not be the same after this program, because it’s designed to facilitate transformation.
So how does it work?
Well, it’s a simple formula.
It starts with…
1. Awareness
Awareness is the foundation for change, which is why we start the month with a 90 minute lecture + QA.
Here you will deepen awareness around common unconscious relationship patterns that people in late stage capitalism fall into.
2. Action + Accountability
After each lecture you will be offered:
Reflection Questions & Exercises to deepen awareness around unconscious patterns unique to you
Practices that help you build new skills & habits
Private Online Community provides structure to help you remember what actions to take, receive support around challenges, and celebrate your effort 🎉
3. Somatic / 3rd Eye Exercises
The second week focuses on integrating the new awarenesses on a physical level. (Soma means “body” in Greek.)
Somatic exercises combined with energy work using the 3rd eye will help you release physical blocks to relating consciously and add tools to your toolbox.
For ex: processing triggers, grounding exercises, visualization meditations, etc.
4. Group Coaching
The 3rd week is your opportunity to receive live support around any of the monthly topics.
Some examples of help you can ask for:
integrating the somatic/3rd eye exercises
integrating the practices
navigating conflict or misalignments
solidifying agreements
seeing your blindspots more clearly
navigating how your patterns interact w each other
boundaries, communication, etc.
Receiving live support at the end of the month further helps you integrate what you’re learning so you’ll be reaping the benefits from the course long after the course is over.
Why do we coach in a group setting?
Because, even if you don’t know what to ask for, it’s likely that someone is needing support with something similar as you. This is a niche ass course after all. You might be surprised by how much you have in common - and by how much you’ll gain just by listening.
5. Space to Integrate 🛸
True integration happens at the pace of the Earth. What does that mean exactly?
Well, capitalism programs you to operate at the vibration of an “eternal summer” as Fēnix says. Always doing, always going. Constantly expanding and growing 🥵
But true integration requires
S P A C E .
Being in a constant state of growth defies nature. And your earthly body is nature.
This program is designed to reflect a pace that allows you to actually grow. So it’s not a course you took once and felt overwhelmed by, but something that sticks with you over time.
That’s why we take a break on the 4th week.
Integration Flow:
Lecture: spring (planting seeds for action)
Somatic/3rd eye exercise: summer (action)
Group Coaching: fall (integration)
Break: winter (rest)
[Picture of us meditating together]
Witchy Shit
The type of witchy shit we’ll be doing would give your religious grandma a heart attack 😂
What makes this program different from others is that it’s co-facilitated by a professionally trained, advanced psychic… who just happens to be my life partner 😇
Each month there will be a somatic exercise that combines energy work using the 3rd eye.
New to energy work?
Don’t worry — it’s designed for beginners!
You might be wondering…
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Each month there will be a total of 3.5 hours of live video calls.
You’ll be offered reflection questions, exercises and practices in between meetings after the week 1 lecture.
You’ll have the entire month to complete these.
The reflection questions and exercises can take anywhere between 1-2 hours.
There are bonus activities that are totally optional if you wanted to go even deeper.
You can even bookmark them for after the course.
The practices are ongoing and are harder to calculate time wise.
Some examples of practices could be:
noticing when an unconscious pattern shows up
experimenting with a new skill or behavior when an unconscious pattern shows up
The more you’re able to prioritize this, the more you’ll get out of it!
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This ain’t some random straight man teaching about relationships.
There’s enough of those out there.
This program has a unique, witchy perspective. It’s facilitated by me, a trans man, aquarius projecter (in human design) & ICF certified relationship coach.
And co-facilitated by my partner, Fēnix, an advanced, professional psychic.
We’re a queer couple who have dated monogamously and non-monogamously in both hetero and queer relationships before meeting each other.
We’re not the culty kind of queers though that will cancel you for saying the wrong thing.
Unlike other programs, this one centers spirituality without creepy religious undertones or spiritual bypassing.
Unlike many spiritual teachers, this also centers the body through somatics.
It’s quite a unique combination!
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As long as you’re willing to have an open mind and try new things, you’ll get something out of this course.
The cool thing about pattern work is that patterns always repeat.
So if you try doing one small thing that’s different than what you would normally do, you’ll get a different result.
These results can be refined over time :)
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Investing in the skills and awareness to deepen trust and pleasure in your relationships is priceless!
The skills and awareness you learn in these 4 months are a foundation to continue building on over time.
No one can take those skills away from you.
It’s the gift that keeps giving.
Also, this is the first time the course is being taught and so it’s deeply discounted.
This is the lowest price tag the course will ever have.
Once you realize what you’ve gotten yourself into, you’ll understand it’s an amazing deal!
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If your partner is resistant to doing shadow work in your relationship (and especially on their own), this simply isn’t going to work.
You can lead a horse to water, but it’s up to the horse to drink.
If you have to drag your partner here kicking and screaming, it’s not enough that they’re physically present.
What’s key is an attitude to learning and growing, being open minded, patient and curious.
Otherwise they won’t benefit from the structure of this course and neither will you.
This isn’t just for people in a relationship - it’s for people who prioritize relationships.
That means both parties.
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It’s common for guilt to arise when you invest in yourself during a time of collective upheaval.
You might feel unworthy of taking care of yourself while others are suffering.
But what if investing in a more stable, trusting relationship could anchor you through the chaos of these times?
Government is unpredictable, but what if your relationship could be your north star?
…something you know isn’t going anywhere?
…something that will have your back no matter what?
What if elevating your consciousness in relationship was a way to divest from oppressive (unconscious) systems and help them crumble?
And what if, as the structure of the old paradigm collapses, the conscious culture you’re cultivating in your heart was a seed to nurture the new systems that arise?
What if there was no better time than right now to prioritize your relationship?
Enroll by July 27th
for a free 1:1 Coaching Session*
Registration open July 20th - August 3rd
*60 minute coaching session valued at $200
Schedule
4 months • 12 meetings
Dates
August 10, 17, 24
September 7, 14, 21
October 5, 12, 19
November 2, 9, 16
Times
Sundays at 4pm Pacific Time
5pm Mountain
6pm Central
7pm Eastern
10am Sydney, Australia
1pm Hawaii
3pm Anchorage, Alaska
Duration
Week 1: 90 min (lecture)
Week 2: 60 min (somatic/3rd eye exercise)
Week 3: 60 min (group coaching)
Week 4: break (for integration)
After this 4 month course you will:
Create a stable foundation for your relationship
Stay on the same team during conflict
Deepen awareness around your patterns and know what to do when they show up
Cultivate new skills & habits to deepen trust
Gain witchy somatic tools to work through triggers
Embrace boundaries as connection, not rejection
FAQs
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Committing to this course is a reflection of your commitment to your relationship.
There are no refunds.
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Yes! This course is inclusive of any relationship format.
Monogamous relationships can be unconscious or they can be conscious.
And the same goes for non-monogamous relationships.
Part of conscious relating is deciding on the relationship agreements that are authentic to you.
We don’t assume a default way of relating (monogamy, non-monogamy, etc.) because there is no normative way of relating.
If you’re willing to be in a peer group of diverse relationship formats of folks who want to awaken from unconscious patterns and deepen trust in their relationships, then you’re welcome to join!
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The course is capped at 5 couples, so 10 people total.
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This course is designed for folks who have experience with therapy, but is not a replacement for therapy.
The co-facilitator’s are not licensed therapists.
Forest is an ICF certified relationship coach, and Fēnix is a professional psychic, astrologer, and ordained minister.
This course is not designed to hold space for crisis support.
If you’re having anxiety attacks, suicidal thoughts, etc. make sure to seek the support of a therapist.
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This course is designed for couples and will not be effective for an individual, regardless of whether you’re single or partnered.
But don’t stress. Be on the lookout for a class on calling in your life partner.
Sign up to my newsletter to stay posted.
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The lecture + somatic/3rd eye exercise (weeks 1 & 2) will be recorded and available via the closed online community each week.
The group coaching session (week 3) is a more vulnerable container and will not be recorded to protect people’s privacy.
If you’re able to come to the live meeting, please do as you’ll be able to ask questions at the end of each meeting and connect with other conscious couples. It will also stay easier to stay synced up with your partner if you’re both able to attend live.
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The lecture + somatic/3rd eye exercise (weeks 1 & 2) will be recorded and available via the closed online community each week.
The group coaching session (week 3) is a more vulnerable container and will not be recorded to protect people’s privacy.
If you’re able to come to the live meeting, please do as you’ll be able to ask questions at the end of each meeting and connect with other conscious couples.
It will also be easier to stay synced up with your partner if you’re both able to attend live.
Meet the Facilitators
Rev. Fēnix Grace is a professionally trained psychic and astrologer who has helped hundreds of people see themselves and their lives with more clarity.
In addition to a background in contemplative psychology, she has extensively developed her clairvoyance for nearly a decade.
Fēnix has spent the last three years teaching others how to cultivate and trust their own intuition and be conscious in relationship to the spiritual world.
She is a skilled healer and specializes in helping people transform issues of self worth, sex, and intimate relationships.
You can follow her writing on Substack, listen to her podcast the Intuitive Woman, and learn more about her work on her website.
Forest Williams helps people enjoy the pleasure of relating by learning the art of trust.
In addition to his rich, embodied wisdom on all things relationships, he has coached hundreds of people all around the globe on deepening trust in their relationships since becoming an ICF certified coach in 2019.
He has worked with a wide variety of clients— from straight to queer, monogamous to non monogamous, 19 year olds to people in their 50s.
During times of collective chaos, Forest guides people with his grounded, visionary insights that inspire hope for the future.
While healing and growing might feel uncomfortable, he believes it can also be silly and sweet.
His favorite way to regulate is by singing and he often shares his songs as medicine to support folks through their growth journeys.