What's Charlie Kirk Gotta Do w Your Love Life? (transitioning from 3D to 5D)

Chapters:

1. Why a Political Assassination Has Everything to Do with Your Relationship
How your emotional reactions to public events mirror the way you handle intimacy, conflict, and power in love.

2. This Is Not Political Advice (And Not About Changing Your Mind)
Why this episode isn’t about opinions—but about consciousness, blind spots, and spiritual growth through relationship.

3. War Consciousness and the 3D Paradigm
How collective war culture keeps people stuck in fear, polarization, and ego-driven reactions.

4. “You’re Either With Me or Against Me” Thinking
Why black-and-white thinking signals unconscious war energy—and how it shows up in romantic conflict.

5. Celebrating an Opponent’s Death as a Spiritual Mirror
What feelings of relief, joy, or vindication reveal about punishment energy and the closed heart.

6. The Difference Between War and Peace Paradigms
How peace consciousness allows for multiple truths, emotional safety, and relational trust.

7. How War Energy Quietly Enters Intimate Relationships
Why wanting your partner to suffer, “be wrong,” or lose during conflict is the same pattern—just scaled down.

8. You Don’t End War by Winning the War
Why domination, righteousness, and moral superiority can’t create peace—internally or relationally.

9. Dropping the Rope: The Real Way Out of Polarization
How disengaging from war consciousness shifts both your nervous system and your love life.

10. Media Saturation, Doomscrolling, and Nervous System Exhaustion
How constant exposure to conflict hardens the heart and limits relational pleasure.

11. Boundaries With News and Social Media
Practical ways to stay informed without feeding fear, anger, or division.

12. The Spiritual Cost of Constant Reactivity
Why living in outrage drains your capacity for intimacy, presence, and enjoyment.

13. Choosing Peace as a Relational Practice
How embodying peace strengthens trust, collaboration, and emotional safety with your partner.

14. What This Moment Is Inviting You to Heal
Using collective triggers as opportunities for spiritual growth and deeper love.

15. Being Peace in a World That Isn’t
How softening your heart—especially when it’s hardest—transforms both your inner and outer relationships.

16. From War Culture to Pleasure Culture
Why letting go of domination creates more ease, safety, and erotic aliveness in partnership.

17. Reflection: Where Might War Energy Still Live in You?
Gentle questions to explore how these patterns may show up in your intimate life.

What does your reaction to Charlie Kirk's assassination say about your love life? You might not think these things are related at all, but we're actually going to take a look at what blind spots your reaction to his assassination might actually be revealing about the state of your heart and your mind and how that translates in your intimate romantic partnership.

So, I'm not here to change your mind, okay? And I'm not here to give you advice. I'm really not interested in generating the karma with you that comes along with giving you advice or trying to pry your mind open. That's not my vibe. What I do here in this podcast is I help you grow spiritually and I help you deepen the enjoyment of your relationship. And those things are one in same. So, we're looking at how do you grow spiritually through the vessel of your relationship? And of course, in the process, it just gets easier and more pleasurable when you're relating more consciously. So, what I want to offer you is my projector perspective around unconscious ways that you might be falling into that collective unconscious thought trap, which of course is a paradigm of war. It's a paradigm of war consciousness, which kind of keeps you stuck in the third dimension. And so, if you are already interested in moving from the third dimension to the fifth dimension, because like this is the time to do it. Earth is already going through her own evolution and consciousness. So, there's just a big wave that like we have the opportunity to ride. If you're already interested in wanting to ride that wave, I want to offer you my perspective around any blind spots you might be missing, you know, what might be holding you back from your intention, and how to actually make that leap. And we can look at it through the lens of this very specific political event that has been very polarizing, which isn't surprising because we're living in polarized world. But, you know, originally, I was going to make a podcast episode this week about the psychology of fuckboys. Because I've worked with a lot of fuckboys, surprisingly, and I've learned a lot about them. And I have a lot to say. It would be surprising to you, I would imagine, because it surprised me. I had this whole perception of them that was really far from their reality once I got to understand their psyche. But, you know, given the current events, and just how divisive and reactive people have been, you know, as a result of this big event, I feel like I want to add a very grounded perspective. You know, this happened a week ago, at this point, a lot of people just been posting and reacting kind of impulsively or unconsciously, just the first thing that comes to mind reacting about But that's not what we're doing here. I want to offer you something deeper, possibly than other media you've seen. I don't know what you're watching. But this is definitely not mainstream media. This is a higher consciousness kind of vibe. So let's just take a look at what might be there. And who knows, you might be surprised. So let's get into it. What if your sacred partnership could be a source of pleasure and stability amidst the chaos of these times? I'm your host, Forest Williams, certified relationship coach, and disciple of love. And I help you learn the art of trust by waking up from unconscious patterns, so you can enjoy the pleasure of relating.

So let's start actually just by looking at war culture, which is the dominant paradigm as much as you don't like war, you want to stop all the wars all around the world that are happening. Because Gaza is just one tiny little portion of what's actually happening in the world around atrocities. If you're very against war, and you're just tired of it. You know, and even if you're not on the front lines of war, if you're not living in a war zone, you're very much still impacted by war consciousness, because it is the dominant collective consciousness that is kind of ruling the 3D paradigm. But it's also actually keeping people stuck in the 3D. So let's just look at what is that unconscious collective paradigm that the world is currently in in the 3D paradigm. So part of that war culture is you're either with me or you're against me. It's this black and white thinking. It's either or, and there's a bit of self-righteousness in it, right? Like there's some ego. It's like, there's only one way and it's my way. I know what's right and what's wrong. You might think you know, but you don't know. My moral compass is superior to yours. And like, it's just an unconscious kind of ego-driven paradigm, you know? And even more so, part of that war culture, of course, is violence. But that violence can take many shapes. It doesn't have to be dropping bombs on people, although that's freaking awful. But it's just this energy of punishment, right? And so when you are celebrating or feeling joyful in response to someone's assassination, who is a political opponent of yours, it's totally part of that war paradigm. It's a war mentality. And you might even feel like you're winning, right? It's like, ah, yeah, like I'm not for guns in the US because we obviously have a gun problem. But even if you're like, yeah, I'm not for guns, but I'm so glad this guy got shot. Like, it is revealing a little bit of 3D consciousness, okay? So if you're wanting to move into the 5D, this is something to take a look at. And if you're someone who's not celebrating his death, you might still find this podcast interesting. You might want to even share it with someone who, you know, they want to move into 5D, but they're stuck in this celebratory trap, like celebrating war culture, basically. It's like, yeah, point for our team. But if you are someone who's falling into this trap, my hope for you is that this would just give you a place to look, honestly, to help you grow even more deeply spiritually. Because I think this is like a very, um, it's an interesting opportunity to challenge yourself to really soften the ego and soften into the heart. And for the record, like, I'm not a political person. I grew up Republican. Okay, I grew up in Missouri. My parents both voted for Trump. And then I moved to California. And even before then, I was like, you know, Democratic or whatever.

I'm just not playing the politics game anymore because both sides are corrupt. And the whole entire system is corrupt. I'm sure at some point it wasn't corrupt, but it got hijacked. And I'm just not interested in playing chess. You know, I'm not here for this binary. The red versus the blue because that's more of the war mentality. I'm just not into it. Okay, so, you know, that's where I'm coming from. In my perspective, I didn't agree with Charlie Kirk in most of his takes, but I'm also not celebrating his death. I'm just kind of observing things with curiosity. And I think it's from that kind of observing things with curiosity, almost as like a sociologist. I'm like, oh, this is how this side is reacting. This is how this side is reacting. And these are the optics of it. I think that's why I think that's why I'm able to actually kind of provide this grounded, zoomed out perspective. So if you're feeling triggered that I'm not on team blue, even or if I'm not on team red, that's also something to look at. Right. Because that like either or kind of mentality that's part of the war mentality. And so let's see if you are triggered, if you can still hear me. And if not, that's fine, too. This might not be for you. So that's the war culture, right? It's self-righteousness. It's ego driven. It's this or that. Either I'm right and you're wrong or vice versa. There's only one way of existing. And the unconscious egotistical thing to say is like, it's my way. It's the right way. And it's like celebrating your opponent's defeat, basically. War paradigm. In contrast, of course, a paradigm of peace, which is a paradigm of pleasure because there is no pleasure in war. Okay, even if you're quote unquote winning, living in a war paradigm is absolutely horrible for everyone involved. It really takes away your empathy and it closes off your heart. And so this is how it relates back to your love life, right? So in a culture of peace, you can hold multiple truths. You can hold multidimensionality. It's like, okay, this guy has some opinions I don't believe or I don't agree with. And he's having his experience. I'm having my experience. But there's not this need to control and dominate, right? Like that's part of the war culture is I disagree with him and so I want him shut down, right? Or I want him eliminated from the earth. War paradigm. In the peace paradigm, you can still have different perspectives and still be on the same team. Okay, and so if you are celebrating or even feeling relief at his death or feeling joy at his death, what this is revealing to you is that there is some war energy that is still living inside your heart and living inside your mind. I know you're not trying to date Charlie Kirk, okay? That would actually be crazy. I don't recommend that. Because if you're here and you're wanting to get challenged spiritually, I wouldn't say, I wouldn't recommend to date someone who's going to trigger the shit out of you, although people do that and it seems really hard and I wouldn't choose it for myself personally. But at the same time, you know, it's a lot easier to practice these more kind of like peace culture with someone who you love, someone who loves you. You might have more trust with each other because you have a history. Maybe you've worked through some conflicts in the past without warring or if you did war a little bit unconsciously, you came back together and you repaired. And so that's part of like this foundation of trust that you have. And if there's a desire to connect and a desire to deepen, it's going to be 100 times easier than practicing this with someone who might trigger you like Charlie Kirk, who has some very, let's say beliefs on the very opposing end of the spectrum. Um, but the reason why I'm connecting this very triggering public figure to your very private intimate love life is because these are the same practices on a different spectrum. So you can practice swimming in the deep end and you could practice swimming in the shallow end. It's obviously going to be easier to practice in the shallow end. But if you are able to swim in the deep end, you are 110% sure that you're going to be able to swim in the shallow end. You're not going to train for the Olympic gold medal in the shallow end. You see what I'm saying? So if this big public event that's been very controversial and emotional for society, I would say global society because everyone's kind of watching this. Um, if you're having a reaction to this, that is revealing that there is some war culture living inside your heart, living inside your mind. This is revealing to you that on the same spectrum, that very much could be showing up in your intimate private relationship because it's the energy, right? It's the same heart and the same mind with which you relate to your partner as the heart and the mind that is celebrating his death. You see your political opponent's death.

And so it could show you that even deep down, even if you don't see it on the surface, that if you and your partner have a disagreement, you might feel that impulse to think, well, I'm right and he's wrong. Or, well, you hurt me and so now I want you to suffer too. I want you to feel that pain. That's some more energy. That's the energy of punishment. And it's violence nonetheless. Even if it's emotional violence, violence is part of war culture. And believe it or not, okay, this is not human nature. A lot of people think that war is part of human nature because it's been around on the planet for quite some time. But, and this could be a whole different episode, but this energy actually comes from a different planet. It comes from, I'll just call them shadow forces. If you want to get really deep into like the world of like clairvoyance and like metaphysics and quantum physics, then we could talk at a more deep level about what's actually running the show. But, you know, I learned about this stuff in psychic school and they don't just teach this to anybody. Like you have to have some baseline foundation of like understanding to really be able to get into where is this energy coming from. It's not as scary as you might think it is. But if you're not educated with that foundational education, you might be freaked out a little bit. So I'm not going to go into details. But what I will say is that this energy is not native to earth. It comes from a foreign place. It comes from a foreign planet. And it has infiltrated earth. And it's, you know, it's no coincidence that it's keeping us locked in the 3D because that's part of human oppression, right? It's like you could look at what's happening on earth and say, oh, there's 1% of humans oppressing 99% of humans. But what's actually going on is that 1% of humans, that energy that they're channeling is not their own. They're just the puppets for let's call them some shadow forces from literally a different planet. Okay. So it is completely not human nature to be at war with each other. And so, part of how you enjoy the pleasure of relating is kind of like detoxing that energy that is not yours, which is that war energy. And it can show up very subtly, like the examples I just gave, you turn against your partner if you get into a conflict, or you feel pain and you want them to feel pain too. So you might jab them back emotionally, right? That's not your truth. It does not lead to peace, does not lead to pleasure. So if you really want to deepen with your romantic partner and you're finding yourself kind of getting stuck in that collective unconscious war paradigm, here's a place to look. So what we can look at is what is actually the wisdom underneath the relief that you might be feeling or the celebration that you might be feeling? Like, what is that reaction actually telling you? We can look at what's the deeper thing going on there. Um, in other words, what is the need? Maybe you're actually just tired of this war paradigm. Um, maybe you're tired of hearing all the news, hearing all these attacks and things all the time, feeling like, you know, there's like kind of a war going on. Like I said, doesn't have to be dropping bombs. Um, but there is energetically a war. And then, you know, people are always talking about the culture war, which I think is just like a waste of time personally. It's just a distraction. Um, but it is tiring. It's exhausting to hear about. If you're someone who's on social media every day, to some degree, you're probably getting some exposure to the news that you can't fully control. It comes in. It comes in. It comes in random intervals. You get images of violence, or there might be a feeling or an emotion that's provoked in you that creates tension and anger in your body. Um, and that's exhausting, right? Like I know some people are like, well, I want to be plugged into the news. I don't want to be inundated by it, but I will go to social media to look for the news. But even so, I think that format is stimulating, even if there is no news in it, it's just a stimulating format to receive any information. And so when you're getting randomly hit with kind of horrible things that are happening in the world, it is exhausting and it does create some anger, creates this like desire to fight. And I'm not saying don't have boundaries, but I'm just pointing out to a phenomenon that's happening for a lot of people in the U S and likely other places in the world too. If you're one of those people experiencing this outside the U S, let me know in the comments. I want to know what it's like. So maybe the need here is actually just setting boundaries with what kind of energy you're letting in. Um, so I'm not saying, you know, shut the news off a hundred percent, although you're welcome to do that if you want to. Some people do that and they find a lot of peace in that and there's still ways to get involved locally and still ways to express care for the planet while also just protecting your energy, you know, or if you want to say, okay, I'm not going to get my news from social media. Um, I'm going to get it from whatever, this really chill source. That's like kind of presenting things neutrally. Maybe go to chat GBT. I know some people don't like that because of the environmental impact or whatever, but some people find it really useful. It is a useful tool. So, you know, sometimes just periodically I'll go to chat GBT and say, what are the highlights from this month? What are the things going on in the U S and the world? And then what are the positive things? Tell me good news. So part of it is like balancing it out. What's the good news? What's the bad news? If you want to have a pulse. Um, another part of it is like, maybe if social media actually has more reliable information than other sources, which, you know, can be very I think especially for Tik TOK, I'm not really on Instagram anymore. So I don't know about that. Um, but like maybe a boundary is you make a separate account just to receive news information. And that way you can create a container around receiving the news. Um, there's a clear start is a clear end. You can emotionally prepare yourself to say, okay, I'm going to receive some information that might upset me. Might scare me, uh, might make me angry and might make me very emotional. And you can consciously open that up and then consciously close it. Could even set a timer for like 10 minutes, 20 minutes. So you're not just doom scrolling. So what does the celebration need? What does the relief need? Like what I'm saying is what is your reaction? If you were having a celebratory reaction to Charlie Kirk's murder, what is the actual need there? So it could be, you're just setting a boundary with what kind of energy you're letting in. For me personally, I've been making a point to surround myself with very inspiring media and of course I find it spiritual. I'm not talking about religion. I do not find religion inspiring or anchoring personally. I think that's also part of the oppressive paradigm. Um, it's like spirituality with like, the, a mask that's like really malicious. Um, but it's like trying to pretend like it's helping the world, but I personally don't think it is. And that's just my take on it. Um, but what I go to is like what I've been really into lately. Um, there's this person's channel called Alison Co on YouTube and, um, she's a QHHT practitioner. If you know Dolores Cannon, I mean, she's like this epic, iconic, um, past life regressionist. And she's known specifically for facilitating, um, like hypnotherapy in a way that helps people connect to different dimensions, helps them talk to what they call like the super consciousness. Um, which transcends your own consciousness and it plugs into like what you could call God consciousness. God is not a person. It's just an energy that we all are a part of. But anyway, I'm into some spiritual shit like that. Um, and she basically like transcribes her sessions and then she just reads them. So I listened to those and I'm like in awe. I'm fascinated. It feels like I'm listening to a story. It feels fantastical because it is out of this world. Okay. But it's also true. And so the truth in it, I find very inspiring. She talks a lot about new earth. If you've heard of this before, I'm not going to go into it right now. You can just Google it. If you're interested about it and you don't know about it. Um, and she talks a lot about transitioning to 5d and that kind of stuff. And, you know, there's a lot of time travel in these, um, hypnotherapy sessions too. So there's like glimpses into future timelines. They're not a hundred percent guaranteed, but that's the thing about time space. It's like a million timelines happening simultaneously. But anyways, there's stuff that's very inspiring. Um, and like rooted in reality, it's like realistic. Um, it's not just like make-belief or made up or fake or something. And it gives hope, you know, um, and for me personally, tapping into those kind of like larger perspectives, even from an astrology point of view, I'm really into Pam Gregory right now. Astrologer. I just watch her videos on YouTube. So if you're looking for more positive media, regardless of how little news you consume, it is so important to also focus your attention on inspiring hopeful media, because when what you feed with your attention is going to grow, you could think of it as like watering seeds in a garden. You water all these seeds over here. They're going to grow a ton. If you're watching the news every day, your consciousness and in your energy body is going to be a lot of anger, a lot of tension, a lot of fear. It's going to have you constricted. It's going to have you celebrating your opponent's defeat. Um, it's going to have you trapped in the 3d. And let's say if you water, uh, the seeds over here, the inspiration and the hope, the positivity, the joy, it's equally as contagious as the other energy. Um, and you don't have to stop caring about the world or something. I think a lot of people think that if you care about the world, you have to watch the news. I don't find that to be true. I'm sorry. That might be triggering. I just don't find it to be true. The reason the mainstream news only shows you the distressing information is because that's part of like the system of oppression. Right. And so you can just step out of that game entirely. You can still do things that make the world a better place. So you can still express care, but you don't have to suffer to express care. It's also part of a war paradigm. This idea of like martyrdom. It's like, Oh, well, I care about the highest good. And so even if it kills me, I'm going to watch the news, but it's like, you don't have to drag yourself through that vibration. You really don't. I don't watch the news and I always am up to date about current events because you really can't escape it. It travels through the grapevine, you know? So like, I'm so plugged in, but I'm not exposing myself to that kind of energy on a regular basis. And here's the thing too, is if you're feeling some relief, like you're tired of the war energy, you're like, Oh, thank God this guy's eliminated. So it's one less person I have to worry about one less person I have to defeat or defend myself against. Well, you don't end the war by winning the war. In other words, the energy of war is not going to be eliminated by using the energy of war. Um, there's this quote by Audre Lord. She says, you can't dismantle the master's house using the master's tools. You're not going to use the paradigm, um, the same paradigm of war to end the war paradigm. That's just not effective actually. Um, so there's wisdom and feeling some relief, right? Because it's telling you, wow, I'm actually too inundated by this war energy and it's giving me, um, maybe heart problems or hypertension. It's affecting my posture. It's affecting my sleep. I have these dreams that are disturbing and they're related to the news. I mean, I've definitely been to that period. I went through a period where I was watching the news every day and I was literally suicidal during that time. Okay. I'm a trans man. And I was just watching all the stuff about the Republicans passing all this anti-trans legislation. And I was freaking out. I was literally too afraid to leave the house. And it got to such a dark, deep place to me. I found like, I felt like I got, like I fell into this hole and I couldn't get out of like despair. Depression and depression and like defeat. That I was literally too afraid to leave the house. I wanted to go to this pride celebration, but I was like, well, what if there's an attack? And what if it's not safe? That's what watching the news every day does to you. Okay. And I was watching Democracy Now, which is like biased opinion, but in my opinion, one of the better news sources. It's not so like fantastical. They just kind of give it to you. So, um, but that energy can make you ill mentally, emotionally, physically. It's, it's meant to oppress you. Even if the intention is good, it is not feeding your move from 3d to 5d. It's actually keeping your energetic vibration in the fight in the 3d. So you don't end the war by winning the war. This is a myth. Um, you actually end the war by dropping the rope. What do I mean by dropping the rope? So if you visualize this game of tug of war, people are yanking on the rope on this side, people are yanking on the rope on that side. You're not going to win the tug of war by yanking the rope and everyone else falls down on the other side. maybe in a war paradigm, but that perpetuates war. Then the other side wants to get you back. Let's play again. You know, revenge war paradigm, how you actually stop the war is you stop playing the game. Okay. War is a construct. It is not native to this planet. It doesn't belong on this planet. And the interesting thing is earth herself is already, um, ascending in consciousness. She's having a consciousness evolution. And I'm sure you could feel this in the collective. In addition to all the crazy stuff that's happening and all the despair and the chaos of like the collapse of a war paradigm. There's also like an unprecedented rise in collective consciousness. Not everybody's there. You know, some people are just in different places and that's fine. We're not going to get a hundred percent of people on the same page. Cause that's part of a war paradigm. We're not here to be a monolith. Human nature is a very diverse expression and every soul journey is in their own place with their own intention for this incarnation. So maybe this is your a hundredth lifetime on earth. Maybe someone's on their fifth lifetime. You're going to be in different places here to learn different lessons. Okay. So you don't need to get everybody on the same page as you in order to embody peace and to facilitate a peace paradigm as the dominant paradigm. All you have to do is drop the rope because this rise in consciousness it's happening in an energetic level. Like earth has our own aura or a field. Okay. Um, and as her energy shifts and the consciousness is rising. And of course we have help from extra terrestrial life who is like facilitating, encouraging earth's growth, um, and helping us in a lot of ways, you know, it's This process has already begun and it cannot be stopped. You can't close Pandora's box. Once it's open, it's open. Okay. And so peace is inevitable. I can't tell you when it's going to come, but that timeline is open and it can't be put back away. It's already on the way here. It's already on the way here. And so the natural response of the 1% who are dominating the planet and facilitating that war energy, conducting it like an orchestra. Yeah. What they're doing in response to feeling the end of their era of domination, essentially, is they're doubling down, um, things are getting crazier. They are losing their power, they're losing their grip, and so they're gripping on even more tightly, you know? Maybe you've had an experience where I'm thinking of, like, um, what's that thing called when you're, like, being pulled by a boat on a lake and you're holding on to, like, these handles, there's, like, a string attached to it, and you're trying to, like, stay on to this, like, little floaty thing and you're, like, hitting the waves and stuff. If you've ever had that feeling of, like, oh, God, I'm gonna fall off, and you try to hold on even tighter, but you're still gonna fall off. Okay, that's what this foreign war energy is going through right now, and they're just doubling down. They're trying to, um, slow down this transition as much as possible. And by the transition, what I mean is this rise in consciousness and, um, the shift of a paradigm away from war and towards peace. It's a paradigm of collaboration and really a paradigm of care, which is the opposite of what we're experiencing now. Right now, it's, like, individualism and domination. And so, the more that you actually feed the war paradigm, the more the oppressors, who don't even belong to this planet, okay, are, like, celebrating. They're, like, ah, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha. They're, like, laughing in their seats. They're smoking a cigar. Their legs are sitting up on the table. And they're, like, yeah, these fucking idiots, like, look at us, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, manipulating them, playing us like a freaking violin, you know? So, um, who's to say that the assassination of Charlie Kirk wasn't professionally orchestrated? Right? Like, who's to say this narrative isn't just a psyop and it's created by the oppressing class? Because this is what they've done historically. There have been CIA documents released that show this strategy. It's a simple divide-and-conquer strategy. It's all about optics and manipulation and deception. Make the public believe this narrative, um, to spark conflict. And then the more we're fighting against ourselves, the more they're just oppressing us, okay? We're not looking at them. We're looking amongst each other and we're like, rah, anger, hate, violence, punishment, whatever. But they're up here just, like, smoking their cigars, like, look at these fools, right? They're just playing us like a violin. But that time has come to an end. And so who's to say, right, that this, um, assassination wasn't, like, orchestrated by that one percent? I mean, they have skill in war. That's their thing, right? So, um, very professionally trained, um, you know, people who get hired for certain jobs, you make it look a certain way, and then you just watch people tear each other apart, right? It's like they create a little spark of, oh, maybe this could divide people more. And it does, right? Um, not everybody, but I think probably, I don't know, I don't have statistics on it, but my perception is probably the majority of people are kind of fighting over it. Like the right is like, oh, the left is like soulless and they're evil and they have no compassion, which like, yeah, there's not a lot of compassion, actually. Um, that's just true. If you're celebrating someone's death, not a lot of compassion. You can agree or disagree, but you can't deny that there's no compassion for celebrating someone's death. Whereas the left is saying, well, oh, well, this person doesn't, isn't supposed to be here anyway. It's the society is better off without them, right? It's that divided energy. You're warring with each other over something that, um, was professionally orchestrated to deceive the public. It was a seed that was planted to intentionally slow down the evolution of consciousness. So don't feed your energy there. Or like, if you want to, sure, if that's where you're at, that's fine because there's going to be some percentage of the population that does that. And, um, like I said, this podcast is for people who want to grow spiritually. So if you want to explore your edge, you want to be kind of confronted. This is your opportunity. It's a place to look. So I have a couple of things I want to offer here. One is a personal story. It actually is two personal stories. So, um, before I actually started dating my current partner, she was, um, well, she is a professional psychic and she was working at the psychic school that I was attending.

You know, with Tucson, um, that is where Raytheon is based, who is like a huge weapons distributor. Um, they're supplying a lot of weapons to Israel. Um, and they're just perpetuating a lot of violence and a lot of war. There's this whole pipeline where people go to the U of A, the University of Arizona and Raytheon has like constructed the curriculum to just get them straight into Raytheon jobs. And so there's just, it's hard to sit with. It's very disturbing and it's upsetting, you know? And, you know, Tucson also has a huge military base, which for me, I found so triggering because of course I don't like war. I'm not happy when I see military jets flying over me. And it was like literally every day they're like flying overhead and I would get so angry. And I was like, well, I'm going to use my psychic tools and I'm going to blow them up with my mind, you know? And then when I told that to Phoenix, my current partner, who was at the time mentoring me, she was like, well, that's interesting because your reaction to that energy of war is like, it's like, I want to blow them up and destroy them, which is a war energy. And at the time I was like,

it blew my mind and it was like disturbing. It was a disturbing shadow for me to sit with. And I didn't really know how to fully hold it, but I could feel that she was onto something and that I was so deeply committed to love and to peace and to spiritual growth that I was like, okay, my impulse still is like, I do want to blow them up, but there is something here where it's like, I don't want the energy of war in the environment to actually corrupt my heart to the point where I'm just walking my dog around the block. And I see something that triggers me and I want to destroy it and eliminate it. Like, I don't want that war energy actually living inside of me because it just doesn't feel good. You know? And so I was like, well, what the hell else am I supposed to do? Like, I'm not for war. Like, I'm just going to let them do their little military drills so they can eventually go and bomb some people. And she was saying, well, like, what if you gave those planes a healing? And I was like,

so the deeper practice there is when there's war energy that's triggering me from the environment, I choose how to respond. Do I want to meet that war energy with more war energy? Cause war plus war equals war. Or do I want to meet that war energy with the energy of peace? Not easy. And there's this huge like ego death in it because especially if you're an activist, you might say, Oh, but you need to take action. You need to do something. It's not enough just to wish peace and love. That's not going to work. But seriously, on a quantum physics level, there is something there that's happening. Okay. Like I said, the rise in consciousness is inevitable. It's like a wave that keeps building. It has not come anywhere near crashing yet. And it's only going to keep building and building and building. What the oppressing class, which is like 1%, it's not even, not even earthlings. Okay. They're just using the earthlings as puppets, the 1%. And what they're doing is they're slowing down the rise in consciousness by perpetuating that war energy because the war energy is keeping us in 3D. It's keeping us in the third dimension.

And so if we want to see a paradigm of peace on this planet, literally, you just have to be peace. And it's easier for me to say this now, because when I initially received this message from my guides, I received messages in my dreams. Pisces men, what can I say? My dreams are like a very spiritual portals for me. And I get some deep ass interactions from my guides and my dreams. One dream I had, this was when I was watching the news every day. I was so upset. I was afraid to leave the house. I was depressed and hopeless. And in my dream, they told me, be peace and peace will come. And at the time it was hard for me to really receive that. But now it's been years. Okay. And I've been sitting with it and I'm really understanding on a deeper level. Oh, so really it's the, the quantum physics of it. Like if earth is a, an atom, you know, it's like energy, there's electrons and protons and neutrons. So how it goes, I don't know. I didn't look at it. I didn't study this for the notes. I'm just coming up with this on the fly. But what I'm saying is like, there's a core to the energy and then there's the auric field. And that has different like electrical charge to it. And it's the same with earth, you know, and you can even imagine your human body and all human bodies, all beings on earth, the plants, the non-human animals as, um, these electrons basically in earth's auric field. Like we are actually all one organism. And so you might say, oh, it's not enough just to wish peace and love, but when you actually learn how to use your third eye to move energy around, you'd really underestimate how powerful that is because the oppressing class has really conditioned or programmed society to think, oh, the imagination, there's nothing there, it's not real. It actually has very real implications.

And once you learn how to hone that craft, it's just like life-changing. I definitely don't regret going to psychic school and I very much recommend it. It's not about predicting the future or something like that. It's just reading energy and moving energy. It's how to facilitate healings, how to see beyond the veil, how to see beyond what your eyes can see, but you know, your pineal gland, which is the third eye, that's how you connect to things beyond earth. Earth is just one tiny fraction of like the whole entire universe. And so it's like a spiritual antenna living in your brain. That's your third eye. When you really learn how to hone in the third eye, it just expands your entire world. It's a very powerful tool, which is why you have been taught to disrespect it and to not value it. It's because if you could really tap into your full power, the ruling class would be over. You know, they would be, you know, there's no more war. So the whole idea is you don't end war by the war. You end war by dropping the rope. It's like, oh, you came here to play this little game of war. Not really into that game. No, thanks. Pass. And for me, that's why I don't watch the news. It's like, oh, you're trying to program me into fear and scarcity to keep me in my primarily like lower three chakras, my earth chakras, whereas you also have your higher cosmic chakras. But it's like, I'm not interested in that game. I'm not interested in being oppressed. And I don't buy that narrative that if I care about the world, then I have to suffer through the news. I have to be stuck in fear and anger and division and want to conquer my enemy, quote unquote. I don't have enemies. Okay. Like Charlie Kirk, I know people do not like him because he does not, um, he's not very pro-gay and he's not very pro-trans. Maybe that's an understatement. Um, I've also seen him be very respectful of trans and gay people, but his philosophy and his beliefs aren't very much like, yay, gay people, yay, trans people. Um, and so as a trans man, I'm like, I don't care what, like, I really feel threatened by this guy's opinion. You know, like I have more security in my sense of self than to be upset by a homophobe or a transphobe. You know how many transphobes I met growing up in Missouri. Okay. How many homophobes I met growing up in Missouri? Like my family is full of them. I'm not like going to feel threatened by that. You know, like I don't have to take that personally. People in different places having their different experiences. Um, and who am I to judge? You know, I am an old soul, right? And so part of that old soul energy is actually just understanding there are medium souls, there are young souls, there are old souls. And that's a spectrum, you know, it's just three categories, but it's, it's more of a spectrum. Each soul came here for different purpose, a different intention. Um, and it could be as simple as I just want to know what it's like on earth. I just want to explore earth or, Ooh, I want to learn about forgiveness this lifetime, or I want to be really, really be challenged and see if I can grow. Um, actually read in one of Dolores Cannon's book is very fascinating that, um, it's called like a soul family or another way I've heard it called is like a soul pod, but it's essentially like your soul homies, you know, it's like, um, before you incarnate into any planet, you're just like living in a different realm where you're just pure spirit, pure soul, pure light body. Um, you and your soul family are like your friends. You're like, Ooh, what do we want to do this time? Ooh, maybe we'll be siblings this time. Or, Ooh, maybe you'll be my dad. Or maybe you'll be my lover. Oh, you'll be my dog or whatever it is. Right. I read about this experience that Dolores Cannon, the hypnotherapist, I mentioned earlier, um, had facilitated a hypnotherapy session for, and it was a fascinating story where the soul family was very close and half of them decided to incarnate in Palestine. Half of them decided to incarnate in Israel. And of course, amidst all the conflict and the tension there and the war, and the intention was, we want to see if we can have compassion for each other. And there's this moment where they made eye contact and... It was like a moment of like a soul awakening. It's like, ah, you know, it's like you transcend the human experience and you touch into something deeper than yourself, which is love, right? That's like the soul's true vibration is love. Like the universe is really made out of love. It's the fabric of existence is love. Um, it's, so it's interesting what kind of things you can sign up for as a soul. And do you know how many souls are on this planet? Okay. Not everybody's having the same experience. Okay. People come here to grow spiritually. You can't really grow that easily when it's all peace and love and you're just pure light body in your state of just pure soul. Right. And so you incarnate to a human body where it's dense as fuck. 3d is very dense. The third density that's dense. And so that's where you experience the growth. Okay. And so imagine, um, a school of life. It's not kindergarten through 12th grade. It's not even kindergarten through like a bachelor's program. It's like infinite levels of learning that literally never ends. Okay. And you got billions of people on this planet. They're all in different places in their curriculum. Okay. And the curriculum is not linear. It's not commodified. Everybody is here to learn their own unique lessons. Like, what is your soul's growth edge? That's what you're here to learn. And it's going to look different for everyone. And so who am I to take it personally when somebody is like, oh, you're trans gross. I'm like, oh, and that's where your soul was at, you know? And my soul's at a different place. My soul was like, ooh, what would it be like to be trans? Let's experiment with that. It seems like a unique experience, you know?

And so the thing with me and my identity, and really, I don't know if it's so much an identity for me as much as an experience. You know, I just enjoy being trans. I enjoy my life. Okay. I enjoy being a man. And I don't need people to accept me. I don't need people to be embracing trans people. I love it when that happens. I'm not going to demand people accept me. I'm not going to force them to accept me. I'm not going to go to war for that because that's just not my vibe, man. I'm just not into coercing people into believing the way I believe, you know? And like from my egoic perspective is, you know, I'm in this 3D dense body and maybe I'm looking at Charlie Kirk's perspective and I'm judging it and I'm saying, well, how could he think of that way? Who's to say he's not thinking the same thing about me, right? And so who's to say in that dynamic, we're both souls at the end of the day, who's to say I'm right and he's wrong or vice versa? The more mature, like spiritually mature way to look at this is like, oh, that's where that soul is at in their growth journey. And I'm in a different place. Neutral.

Transphobic people are not my enemy because I don't have enemies, okay? And even if people are trying to attack me, they're trying to eliminate me from the planet. I don't hate them.

I don't need to be understood to be respected and I don't need to understand people to respect them. I can hear Charlie Kirk's opinion and I could say, hmm, well, that's not my vibe. Next, I'm not going to dwell on it. I'm not going to battle him. I'm not going to celebrate his death. That's the last thing I'm going to do, okay? I mean, when I heard he died, I said, hmm, suspicious. And then the more I looked into it, I was like, oh yeah, this is definitely a setup. This is not like, you know, and like, I don't have hard evidence around that, but it's just like a deeper intuitive knowing that this is all just a psyop to plant more seeds of division so we can be divided and conquered. And it's working pretty well. Well, so if you're finding yourself hooked on the war energy, this is an opportunity to zoom out and just have like a bigger perspective, you know? I think it's kind of a trippy perspective to think about it from the soul level because we're in a human body and it's a lot harder to stay connected to your truth as a soul when you're kind of in this limited reality. And that's why it helps a lot to facilitate that culture of peace, that energy of peace to just zoom out and say, oh yeah, there is space for difference. You know, if a three-year-old is throwing a tantrum and like throwing rocks at someone because he's upset, I'm not going to go to war with that three-year-old.

Because what is that going to create? It's going to create more energy of war. This kid's not going to develop in a way where his heart is open, you know? Some people are just in different places and it doesn't make you better or worse or superior or inferior. It just is what it is, you know? This is just a game called Earth that we're all playing. And you get to choose. Do you want to play the war game or do you want to play the peace game? Just so happens if you play the peace game, you're going to enjoy your life more. You're going to enjoy your relationship more. And you're going to make it 10 times easier to transition from the 3D to the 5D where things get really cool. You can listen to Alison Coe and her YouTube channel if you want to know how cool things get over there.

So there's this quote from The Hunger Games that I really love. I never read the books, but I really enjoyed the movies. I watched them multiple times because I just love that kind of like sociology and looking at the psychology of how like groups of people interact with each other and that kind of thing. And it's like a story of revolution, which is just like exhilarating. I love that kind of shit. Okay. So there's this quote from The Hunger Games where the components who are competing in The Hunger Games, not by their choice, they're forced to be at war with each other. It's exactly a microcosm of what's going on here. Somebody's playing, like pulling on the strings. The people are just like, I don't want to be in this position, but now I have to kill you in order to survive. And so when Katniss, the main character is about to kill one of the other components, he says, remember who the real enemy is. And then he looks up.

That's such a powerful quote. It's such a powerful sentiment. And it's 100% resonant with the reality that we're actually experiencing.

Someone who has different beliefs than you is actually not your enemy and who actually wins when you believe that someone who has opposing beliefs to you is your enemy is the 1% that aren't even from this planet. Okay. They just hijacked it and they made us all kill each other and go to war with each other. It's totally out of our human nature and it's not pleasurable for anybody. Nobody likes this. It's a classic divide and conquer strategy. So keep these things in mind. There might be some things you resonate with, some things you don't resonate with. That's fine. Like I said, I'm not here to convince you. I'm not here to pry your mind open. That's more of that war energy. What I want to do is actually just offer kind of like a playful perspective, a somewhat neutral perspective. I'm not perfectly neutral because I'm a fucking human being.

But you know, it's like if you can have a little bit of amusement and just remember, oh, I'm playing a game. You really become the creator of your reality, right? And I think where a lot of people are like, I'm so tired of this war energy is because they feel victim to it. They feel like they're powerless in the face of it. I don't want this war to continue going on. I don't want to have to continue feeling unsafe in my environment because there's people who want me eliminated or who, whatever, are discriminating against people, even if it's not my demographic. I just don't want this to happen. I don't want it to happen either. But the most effective way to actually move into a different paradigm, enjoy your life more, feel safer in the world and create your own reality, you shape your reality. It's just drop the rope. There's a reason why these apps kind of like harvest your attention. It's because what you feed with your intention with your attention grows. And so if you want to be the creator of your own life, you can have some boundaries around where am I feeding my attention? How much am I feeding this? How much am I feeding that? What do I want to see grow? And then really start honing in on that. You don't have to spiritual bypass things. You don't have to stop caring about the world. What I see is like the spiritually mature perspective that maybe is not intuitive on an egoic level is that you're actually doing a service to the world on a quantum physics energetic level by dropping the rope. Because that helps earth do what she's already doing, which is ascending in consciousness. That helps that happen quicker. Okay. And if the 1% oppressing class has no rope to pull, there's no game to play anymore. Nobody's playing the game. And so the game is just over. Like nobody has to die for it. We don't have to lose our hearts in the process. And if you can stay soft in your heart during a moment, such as Charlie Kirk's assassination, just imagine what that says about how deeply you can enjoy the pleasure of your love life. How deeply you can still stay on the same team, even through stress, even through conflict with your partner.

I think the biggest help for me is just to remember that earth is a playground. It's a school for the soul. And so, you know, these events that are happening that are triggers, whether it's this specific event, the assassination of a political opponent, or if it's any other event, because it's going to, you know, the What is it? Like the sludge at the bottom of the pool is gonna keep coming up and out, right? Because the consciousness is rising. Think of it like a spring water. Like it's coming up and out. And so while it's also rising, you know, there's a bottom to that that's also gonna be coming up and out, okay? And so this isn't the last of the chaos. These old systems are collapsing in on themselves because they're falling. So don't get distracted by the debris. Don't get distracted by the theatrics of it. Your attention is gold, okay? This is your currency for creating your own reality. This is your currency for actually having a sense of power and a sense of say over how do you want society and how do you want the world to be? Peace starts with you. Be peace and peace will come. That's all I've got for you today. There was one more example I was gonna share, but I just feel done. I'm like, eh, I think that's enough for now. Be peace and peace will come. I love that. It's simple and it's simple and it's challenging. I think it's pretty advanced to practice that. If you wanna go deeper into this work, I am hosting a few different workshops around people-pleasing this fall. You can sign up to my newsletter. That's where I will share information about those. Go to ConsciousRelating. org, sign up for my newsletter. You'll be plugged in about upcoming events. And just, you know, I also share things I find hopeful and inspiring there. So if you're needing more of that, I've got you. I was originally posting these episodes once every two weeks, every Friday. What I've come to find is actually that schedule is more of like, oh, I want this podcast to grow. And so I'm gonna publish consistently. So the algorithm can like pick me up. But on a deeper level, I'm kind of feeling the flow of that. And I'm like, oh, wait, that's not my natural flow. Especially not my natural creative flow. My creative flow is not linear. Okay. And I will be consistently publishing episodes, but it's gonna be sporadic. Because that feels more natural to me. And on a soul level, it feels more nourishing. I don't really want to contort myself to these algorithms and shape the rhythm of my life according to a Spotify algorithm or like a YouTube algorithm. So, you know, just keep an eye out. Definitely subscribe to the channel if you want to get updated when there's new episodes. And I do share about new episodes as well in my newsletter. So go check that out. That is all for today. May your heart be full of peace and full of pleasure. Peace be with you